[/nq] Either are acceptable in the objective case. However, some consider the use of "whom" to be an affectation. And some have a "better safe than sorry" approach because it is far worse to use "whom" incorrectly than it is to use "who" in the objective case, "whom" should be entirely dispensed with.
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