Some people still remember it and they suddenly talked about her son and her.
One of them say "How hard she was?" <= Is it OK? this can be a rhetorical question or this is said becasue the speaker wants to hear the same feeling from the listeners.
In a nutshell, the speaker said it as a empathy(the mom of the dead son).
I don't know if made a point. I just want to know if the expression underlined makes sense considering the example story.
Top answer
Hi Moon: This is a more appropriate question: How hard was it for her? The sympathetic statement is: It must have been very hard for her. The experience was difficult (hard) for her to cope with.
— AlpheccaStars
Free · every Monday
Get the Weekly English Kit 📬
New words, one handy idiom, and a 2-minute quiz — delivered to your inbox to keep your streak alive.