Would you tell me the meaning of this "stand to," underlined? I assumed it was like, accept or bear, but I feel something wrong, that they won't perfectly fit in the context. Is there any idiomatic usage?
(excerpt from a book by David Sedaris, homosexual, and he is talking here about his childhood.)
There was the lisp, of course, but more troubling was my voice itself, with its excitable tone and high, girlish pitch. I'd hear myself ordering lunch in the cafeteria, and the sound would turn my stomach. How could anyone stand to listen to me?
Thank you,
M
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'Stand to do' is used with the usual meaning ('tolerate, accept, bear') here. The writer thinks that no one could bear listening to his terrible lisping, squeaky voice.
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'Stand to do' is used with the usual meaning ('tolerate, accept, bear') here. The writer thinks that no one could bear listening to his terrible lisping, squeaky voice.
"how could you do that to me!" means "someone actually did a terrible thing to someone else."
So I suppose:
"how could anyone stand to listen to me" sounds like "someone actually could stand to his voice, and he has no idea how they did it." Maybe they were not paying