May Imam Posted 21 years ago
Grammar

GENERALLY...Should it be HE or HE/SHE ???

Dear Moderators and All,

Sth's really confusing me here... If you could help that would mean alot to me. When refering to a certain position, quality, major, job or whatever, do we generally use the word HE (refering to both sexes) or should we be more specific by writing: He/She???

For example:

1a- A successful teacher is one who understands HIS students well.

1b- You should not judge a leader unless you observe well how HE treats his followers.
OR:

2a- A successful teacher is one who understands HIS/HER students well.

2b- You should not judge a leader unless you observe well how HE/SHE treats his followers.

can example 1 refer to both sexes?? or should we write it as in example 2?!

Waiting for your reply,
May
  

Top answer

The anti-sexist faction has opened a can of worms in this area, May. The problem is that English is historically patriarchal (as are most of its Indo-European antecedents); often, therefore, there is no replacement for the traditional 'he' that is not awkward. Here are some guidelines: - If the *** of the referent is known, use the appropriate pronoun, 'he' or 'she'.

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The anti-sexist faction has opened a can of worms in this area, May. The problem is that English is historically patriarchal (as are most of its Indo-European antecedents); often, therefore, there is no replacement for the traditional 'he' that is not awkward.

Here are some guidelines:

- If the *** of the referent is known, use the appropriate pronoun, 'he' or 'she'.
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Additionally, a more popular approach is to phrase the sentence without s/he:

1a- A successful teacher is one who understands students well.

1b- You should not judge a leader unless you observe well how that leader treats followers.

All the best,

Note, if you want to rile male readers, use "she".