Gay relationship

Hi.

I am sorry to post such a thing in this forum. but I cannot find the better place for asking my questions.

i don't mean to be offensive or impolite.

I am looking for words in gay relationship.

what do we call a person who f...ks and what is the word for the one who is f....ked.

and there is kind of relationship that both partners f and being...........what are the words for thoes.

I am sorry again for the languages I used.

I hope you don't find it offensive.